Intro:
- v 24 is a play on words in the original text – they believed in Jesus but He did not believe in them.
- disclosure is the currency of intimacy and relationship
- disclosure ceases when trust is broken, relationship become distant
1. Why it’s hard to trust: issue = sin
- People are broken
- Jesus could not entrust Himself to the people because He knows them – me. He knows the motives, secrets, rationalizations, and desires.
- Jeremiah 17:9 – # 1 verse in the Bible on sin.
- C.S. Lewis said we are a soul that in this season has a body.
- Sin is: inbred – its our nature; ingrained – you cannot shake it; insidious – cannot be fully understood
- Isaiah 64:6 – all of the “good” things I do reinforce my rebellion and demonstrate I don’t need God
- We are unable to solve this problem apart from God’s grace
- He didn’t entrust Himself to people because He does not need them and what they can do for Him
- Application: How much pain in my life is produced from the expectations I place on others that only Jesus Christ can fulfill?
2. When it’s hard to trust: issue = time
- People are fickle
- God is constant; only God is constant
- Discipline of Disillusionment – Oswald Chambers from My Utmost to His Highest
3. Who it’s hard to trust: issue = love
- People are selfish
- Where we don’t love we cannot be hurt
- Bad Cycle – new relationship (excitement); aging relationship (reality); crisis relationship (failure); severed relationship (bitterness)
4. Five Mandates for Christian Relationships
- Reconciliation Principle – roll off my back, roll it off to God in prayer, reconcile it with the person
- Forgiveness Principle – decision to release the person from the obligation created when you injured me; there are no enduring relationships without forgiveness.
- Gratefulness Principle – it is a great wickedness to harvest the benefits of a person’s strengths and then lament the person’s weaknesses.
- Involvement Principle – Philemon Principle – if you’re on good terms with two people who are not on good terms with one another, then put yourself in the middle
- Unity Principle – the whole is more important than the part
From a message preached by Pastor James MacDonald at Harvest Bible Chapel. Watch or listen to the complete message here.





