How not to die by Paul Graham

February 2nd, 2010

This was one of the most influential articles that I’ve read as it relates to being an entrepreneur.

This is a talk I gave at the last Y Combinator dinner of the summer. Usually we don’t have a speaker at the last dinner; it’s more of a party. But it seemed worth spoiling the atmosphere if I could save some of the startups from preventable deaths. So at the last minute I cooked up this rather grim talk. I didn’t mean this as an essay; I wrote it down because I only had two hours before dinner and think fastest while writing.)

A couple days ago I told a reporter that we expected about a third of the companies we funded to succeed. Actually I was being conservative. I’m hoping it might be as much as a half. Wouldn’t it be amazing if we could achieve a 50% success rate?

Another way of saying that is that half of you are going to die. Phrased that way, it doesn’t sound good at all. In fact, it’s kind of weird when you think about it, because our definition of success is that the founders get rich. If half the startups we fund succeed, then half of you are going to get rich and the other half are going to get nothing.

If you can just avoid dying, you get rich. That sounds like a joke, but it’s actually a pretty good description of what happens in a typical startup. It certainly describes what happened in Viaweb. We avoided dying till we got rich.

It was really close, too. When we were visiting Yahoo to talk about being acquired, we had to interrupt everything and borrow one of their conference rooms to talk down an investor who was about to back out of a new funding round we needed to stay alive. So even in the middle of getting rich we were fighting off the grim reaper.

You may have heard that quote about luck consisting of opportunity meeting preparation. You’ve now done the preparation. The work you’ve done so far has, in effect, put you in a position to get lucky: you can now get rich by not letting your company die. That’s more than most people have. So let’s talk about how not to die.

We’ve done this five times now, and we’ve seen a bunch of startups die. About 10 of them so far. We don’t know exactly what happens when they die, because they generally don’t die loudly and heroically. Mostly they crawl off somewhere and die.

For us the main indication of impending doom is when we don’t hear from you. When we haven’t heard from, or about, a startup for a couple months, that’s a bad sign. If we send them an email asking what’s up, and they don’t reply, that’s a really bad sign. So far that is a 100% accurate predictor of death.

Whereas if a startup regularly does new deals and releases and either sends us mail or shows up at YC events, they’re probably going to live.

I realize this will sound naive, but maybe the linkage works in both directions. Maybe if you can arrange that we keep hearing from you, you won’t die.

That may not be so naive as it sounds. You’ve probably noticed that having dinners every Tuesday with us and the other founders causes you to get more done than you would otherwise, because every dinner is a mini Demo Day. Every dinner is a kind of a deadline. So the mere constraint of staying in regular contact with us will push you to make things happen, because otherwise you’ll be embarrassed to tell us that you haven’t done anything new since the last time we talked.

If this works, it would be an amazing hack. It would be pretty cool if merely by staying in regular contact with us you could get rich. It sounds crazy, but there’s a good chance that would work.

A variant is to stay in touch with other YC-funded startups. There is now a whole neighborhood of them in San Francisco. If you move there, the peer pressure that made you work harder all summer will continue to operate.

When startups die, the official cause of death is always either running out of money or a critical founder bailing. Often the two occur simultaneously. But I think the underlying cause is usually that they’ve become demoralized. You rarely hear of a startup that’s working around the clock doing deals and pumping out new features, and dies because they can’t pay their bills and their ISP unplugs their server.

Startups rarely die in mid keystroke. So keep typing!

If so many startups get demoralized and fail when merely by hanging on they could get rich, you have to assume that running a startup can be demoralizing. That is certainly true. I’ve been there, and that’s why I’ve never done another startup. The low points in a startup are just unbelievably low. I bet even Google had moments where things seemed hopeless.

Knowing that should help. If you know it’s going to feel terrible sometimes, then when it feels terrible you won’t think “ouch, this feels terrible, I give up.” It feels that way for everyone. And if you just hang on, things will probably get better. The metaphor people use to describe the way a startup feels is at least a roller coaster and not drowning. You don’t just sink and sink; there are ups after the downs.

Another feeling that seems alarming but is in fact normal in a startup is the feeling that what you’re doing isn’t working. The reason you can expect to feel this is that what you do probably won’t work. Startups almost never get it right the first time. Much more commonly you launch something, and no one cares. Don’t assume when this happens that you’ve failed. That’s normal for startups. But don’t sit around doing nothing. Iterate.

I like Paul Buchheit’s suggestion of trying to make something that at least someone really loves. As long as you’ve made something that a few users are ecstatic about, you’re on the right track. It will be good for your morale to have even a handful of users who really love you, and startups run on morale. But also it will tell you what to focus on. What is it about you that they love? Can you do more of that? Where can you find more people who love that sort of thing? As long as you have some core of users who love you, all you have to do is expand it. It may take a while, but as long as you keep plugging away, you’ll win in the end. Both Blogger and Delicious did that. Both took years to succeed. But both began with a core of fanatically devoted users, and all Evan and Joshua had to do was grow that core incrementally. Wufoo is on the same trajectory now.

So when you release something and it seems like no one cares, look more closely. Are there zero users who really love you, or is there at least some little group that does? It’s quite possible there will be zero. In that case, tweak your product and try again. Every one of you is working on a space that contains at least one winning permutation somewhere in it. If you just keep trying, you’ll find it.

Let me mention some things not to do. The number one thing not to do is other things. If you find yourself saying a sentence that ends with “but we’re going to keep working on the startup,” you are in big trouble. Bob’s going to grad school, but we’re going to keep working on the startup. We’re moving back to Minnesota, but we’re going to keep working on the startup. We’re taking on some consulting projects, but we’re going to keep working on the startup. You may as well just translate these to “we’re giving up on the startup, but we’re not willing to admit that to ourselves,” because that’s what it means most of the time. A startup is so hard that working on it can’t be preceded by “but.”

In particular, don’t go to graduate school, and don’t start other projects. Distraction is fatal to startups. Going to (or back to) school is a huge predictor of death because in addition to the distraction it gives you something to say you’re doing. If you’re only doing a startup, then if the startup fails, you fail. If you’re in grad school and your startup fails, you can say later “Oh yeah, we had this startup on the side when I was in grad school, but it didn’t go anywhere.”

You can’t use euphemisms like “didn’t go anywhere” for something that’s your only occupation. People won’t let you.

One of the most interesting things we’ve discovered from working on Y Combinator is that founders are more motivated by the fear of looking bad than by the hope of getting millions of dollars. So if you want to get millions of dollars, put yourself in a position where failure will be public and humiliating.

When we first met the founders of Octopart, they seemed very smart, but not a great bet to succeed, because they didn’t seem especially committed. One of the two founders was still in grad school. It was the usual story: he’d drop out if it looked like the startup was taking off. Since then he has not only dropped out of grad school, but appeared full length in Newsweek with the word “Billionaire” printed across his chest. He just cannot fail now. Everyone he knows has seen that picture. Girls who dissed him in high school have seen it. His mom probably has it on the fridge. It would be unthinkably humiliating to fail now. At this point he is committed to fight to the death.

I wish every startup we funded could appear in a Newsweek article describing them as the next generation of billionaires, because then none of them would be able to give up. The success rate would be 90%. I’m not kidding.

When we first knew the Octoparts they were lighthearted, cheery guys. Now when we talk to them they seem grimly determined. The electronic parts distributors are trying to squash them to keep their monopoly pricing. (If it strikes you as odd that people still order electronic parts out of thick paper catalogs in 2007, there’s a reason for that. The distributors want to prevent the transparency that comes from having prices online.) I feel kind of bad that we’ve transformed these guys from lighthearted to grimly determined. But that comes with the territory. If a startup succeeds, you get millions of dollars, and you don’t get that kind of money just by asking for it. You have to assume it takes some amount of pain.

And however tough things get for the Octoparts, I predict they’ll succeed. They may have to morph themselves into something totally different, but they won’t just crawl off and die. They’re smart; they’re working in a promising field; and they just cannot give up.

All of you guys already have the first two. You’re all smart and working on promising ideas. Whether you end up among the living or the dead comes down to the third ingredient, not giving up.

So I’ll tell you now: bad shit is coming. It always is in a startup. The odds of getting from launch to liquidity without some kind of disaster happening are one in a thousand. So don’t get demoralized. When the disaster strikes, just say to yourself, ok, this was what Paul was talking about. What did he say to do? Oh, yeah. Don’t give up.

Paul Graham

Dealing with Cybersquatters – specifically Manilla Industries

October 21st, 2006

If you are looking to purchase a domain name owned by a Cybersquatter and not sure how to get it if they are overseas you do have an option. According to ICANN you can file what is called UDRP complaint and if you have a solid grievance then the domain name may be released to you.

Under the UDRP, a registrant represents, among other things, that to his knowledge, the registration of the domain name will not infringe upon or otherwise violate the rights of any third party. See UDRP § 2. Nevertheless, in violation of this section, registrants commonly incorporate registered trademarks of third parties into domain names, such as by slightly altering the spelling of the mark (“neimanmarkus.com”), by adding extra words to the mark (“supportnovell.com”), or by including “www” into the domain name (“wwwchevron.com”).

The owner of the trademark may seek recourse against such a domain name registrant by filing a complaint with a dispute resolution provider approved by ICANN. Approved providers include the National Arbitration Forum (“NAF”), the World Intellectual Property Organization (“WIPO”), CPR Institute for Dispute Resolution (“CPR”), and eResolution.[3] Each provider follows the UDRP as well as its own supplemental rules.

Under the UDRP a complaint must allege that (i) the domain name is identical or confusingly similar to a trademark or service mark in which the complainant has rights; (ii) the registrant has no rights or legitimate interests in respect of the domain name; and (iii) the domain name has been registered and is being used in bad faith. In the administrative proceeding, the complainant must prove that each of these three elements is present. See UDRP § 4(a).

Evidence of bad faith includes, but is not limited to, showing that (1) the registrant acquired the domain name primarily for the purpose of selling it to the owner of the trademark for consideration in excess of the registrant’s documented out-of-pocket costs directly related to the domain name; (2) the registrant registered the domain name primarily for the purpose of disrupting the business of a competitor; or (3) the registrant intentionally attempted to attract Internet users to its web site for commercial gain by creating a likelihood of confusion with the complainant’s mark.

Once the complaint is filed and the arbitration is initiated, the registrant has an opportunity to respond. A panel of one or three arbitrators, depending on the request of the parties, reviews the complaint, response, and any supporting documents. The panel then decides to transfer the domain name, cancel the registration, permit the registrant to keep the domain name, or dismiss the complaint.

A very high percentage of complaints results in the domain name being transferred to the complainant. For example, out of 6648 complaints filed under the UDRP to date, 5239 (78.8%) of those have resulted in transfer to the complainant, while only 1319 have resulted in a decision for the registrant, the remaining decisions being split between the parties or cancellations of the registration. See Statistical Summary of Proceedings Under Uniform Domain Name Dispute Resolution Policy at http://www.icann.org/udrp/proceedings-stat.htm.

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Snagit Screen Capture Software Review

October 11th, 2006

I started using SnagIt a few years back while working a job at Accenture. We primarily used the tool for grabbing development errors to share back and forth with the team.

Recently I’ve begun using SnagIt 8.1 This is a significant upgrade to the version I previously used. The new dashboard they have which allows me to select what I want to do with the output image on the fly which is a change from previous versions. The other thing that has proven to be really handy is the option to select an entire web page. This allows me to grab a screenshot of of a full page, no matter how long it runs. We do a lot of mock up for customers and this functionality gives us great flexibility

Snagit 8 Screen Capture Software

TiVo 7.3+ and DHCP

September 10th, 2006

TiVo sent me a software update and since that has happened my TiVo service has been unable to communicate with TiVo over the Internet. When I called TiVo’s technical support line their solution was to have me hook up my phone line and run an update that way. This doesn’t work for our house because we don’t have a phone line.

So after talking with TiVo for a while and pouring over their support site the solution became apparent. There is something in the software update for version 7.3+ that requires certain ports to be opened up on your router. For this example I have given my TiVo a static IP address of 192.168.2.40, this will be different for every TiVo device and network.

Start by logging into your router and find your way over to Ports. Again this will be different for every router. You’ll need to open the following ports (TCP and UDP): TiVo Ports to be opened

Once this is completed go ahead and launch the connection service again to TiVo and it should work.

Mapping Your Private World

July 1st, 2005

Journaling: a tool to bring your soul into focus.

On December 17, 1968, I wrote the following words on page one of a spiral-bound, college-ruled notebook:

“With some hesitation I begin the lifelong task of keeping a personal journal. This effort starts in the final third of my twenty-ninth year. For a long time I carried on an argumentative dialog with myself as to the significance of such an undertaking. It seems presumptuous to think that my life’s notes will have any value once I am gone.

“With some hesitation I begin the lifelong task of keeping a personal journal. This effort starts in the final third of my twenty-ninth year…”

“Yet perhaps the greatest contribution one might leave for his posterity would be a personal chronicle of real living—unbridled life, unglossed and real to the core.”

With the benefit of age, I now see youthful pomposity in those words. Later in that entry I wrote:

“If just one person could look into the window of my soul and see me for what I really am before God … they would catch a glimpse of several frustrated forces—some good, some bad—fighting for the dominance of my heart. Were it not for the promise of God in Philippians 1:6, I should have doubts regarding the outcome. No one could chart my desperate desire to love Christ. Few would appreciate my hunger to see him break forth in power in my life. Perhaps it is the fate of the Christian never to be satisfied with the status quo.”

Bottom line: don’t journal if you want to evade the truth.

Now, 36 years later, there are two Home Depot safes, fireproof, that protect the journals I have filled attempting to make sense of my journey through 65 years of life.

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San Francisco Has Most Free Wi-Fi Hot Spots, By Far

June 9th, 2005

Intel may put Seattle at the top of the Most Unwired Cities list, but when it comes to free wi-fi, San Francisco is in the lead, by far. Take a look at this:

San Francisco, Calif. June 9, 2005 — With 430 free wireless Internet (Wi-Fi) hot spots, San Francisco, Calif.,, has reached the top of a list of the USA’s Top 25 Free Wireless Cities; this list is managed by Wi-Fi index MetroFreeFi.com. Until recently, San Francisco was in second place with 120 free Wi-Fi hot spots outranked by Chicago with 171 hot spots.

Why the sudden jump? Silicon Valley firm AnchorFree Wireless brought free Wi-Fi to popular shopping districts of San Francisco: the Marina District, Fillmore District, and The Castro; giving consumers access to an additional 310 free Wi-Fi hot spots. To view the list of the USA’s Top 25 Free Wireless Cities, please visit http://www.metrofreefi.com/most_unwired.php

In the last year large municipal Wi-Fi efforts, including San Francisco, have met strong opposition from large telecommunication companies. “It’s good to see a business that actually builds free wireless networks rather than merely talking about them,” said Ryan MacCarthy of MetroFreeFi.com. “As advocates of free Wi-Fi, we’re excited to include all of AnchorFree’s hot spots on our list.”

“By providing consumers with free wireless Internet connectivity, these Wi-Fi hotzones help enhance the ‘unwired’ experience for Intel Centrino mobile technology users, connecting them back to their family and friends, as well as their workplace.” said Karen Regis, director of marketing programs for Intel’s Mobile Platforms Group.

“We are excited to provide consumers with free Wi-Fi at the heart of San Francisco’s vibrant shopping districts”, said David Gorodyansky, President of AnchorFree Wireless. “By making Wi-Fi access free, we are giving San Franciscans an affordable way to use the Internet outside of their homes and offices.”

In May of 2004, AnchorFree launched a Wi-Fi access in downtown Palo Alto, Calif., giving consumers access to over 70 new wireless Internet hot spots. The San Francisco Wi-Fi hot spots are located approximately 30 miles from the downtown Palo Alto Wi-Fi access.

About AnchorFree:
Headquartered in Sunnyvale, California, Co-Founders David Gorodyansky and Eugene Malobrodsky had a clear vision in 2003: to give consumers an affordable and widespread way to access the Internet outside of their homes and offices. Company President David Gorodyanksy and AnchorFree Wireless have been featured in over 30 media publications. For further information, please visit www.anchorfree.com

About MetroFreeFi.com:
MetroFreeFi.com, a subsidiary of Chicago-based Nebo Group, started as a private list built by a newcomer to the San Francisco Bay Area and has grown into a large scale, but highly localized, resource for verified free Wi-Fi locations around the nation. MetroFreeFi.com is now a list of over 6000 confirmed free wireless hotspots sporting 802.11b and even some with 802.11g from San Francisco to New York.

∗ Intel and Intel Centrino are trademarks or registered trademarks of Intel Corporation or its subsidiaries in the United States and other countries.

Contact Information:

Denis Hiller, Communications Director
AnchorFree Wireless
650-669-2772

Ryan MacCarthy, Spokesperson
MetroFreeFi.com

Brooke Shields Lashes Out at Tom Cruise

June 2nd, 2005

Brooke Shields and Tom Cruise have been in the news lately for some britter words with one another. People’s website has a story about the acting duo and it’s rather funny to watch two Hollywood stars slug it out in the media. Look at a few of their pot shots at one another and get a good laugh with me!

It all started with Tom Cruise making some comments in the news about Brooke’s dealings with postpartum depression”

Last week Cruise told Access Hollywood that is was “irresponsible” for Shields to assert that antidepressants helped cure her. “When someone says (medication) has helped them, it is to cope, it didn’t cure anything. There is no
science. There is nothing that can cure them whatsoever,” he said.

He later added:

“vitamins and exercise.” He then added about Shields: “I care about Brooke Shields because I think she is an incredibly talented women, (but) look at where has her career gone.”

Rather than taking the high road and letting a fool wallow in his folly, Shields responded with:

“Tom should stick to saving the world from aliens and let women who are experiencing postpartum depression decide what treatment options are best for them,” says the former Suddenly Susan star.

All in all this is pretty hilarious. Two stars who really haven’t done anything worthwhile in their careers in the last decade (or so) taking shots at one another about aliens and vitamins. Good time folks, good times!

Mourning the Pope

April 5th, 2005

This morning I was listening to the radio and the DJ mentioned an article by R. Albert Mohler Jr. (of the Southern Baptist Convention). I emailed him and got the article link. It was a really interesting aritcle on the life of the Pope, the office of the Papacy and a look at the legacy left by this Pope that will live well beyond his 26 years in office. Here are a few snippets from the article which I found interesting:

…Inevitably, his death raises fundamental questions about how evangelical Christians should understand the papacy itself, as well as those who hold the papal office. Given the low level of theological knowledge and the high emotionalism of the era, many evangelicals appear confused when confronted with an event like the death of a pope. Furthermore, evangelicals are more likely to have been aware of this pope in contrast with those who held the office in the past. In this age of mass communications and media, John Paul II has been one of the most publicized, televised and celebrated public figures of our age.

We should be unembarrassed and unhesitant to declare our admiration for John Paul II’s courageous stand against communism, his bold defense of human dignity and human life, and his robust and substantial defense of truth in the face of postmodernism. In many of the great battles of our day, evangelicals found John Paul II to be a key ally. This was especially true with the crucial issues of abortion and euthanasia. With bold strokes and a clear voice, this pope defended human life from the moment of conception until natural death. In his encyclical, Evangelium Vitae (1995), he argued for an implacable opposition to what he called the “culture of death” — an age that would increasingly embrace death rather than life and forfeit human dignity on the altar of human autonomy and individual rights.

Even so, we must also recognize that John Paul II also represented the most troubling aspects of Roman Catholicism. He defended and continued the theological directions set loose at the Second Vatican Council. Even as he consolidated authority in the Vatican and disciplined wayward priests and theologians, he never confronted the most pressing issues of evangelical concern.

Even in his most recent book, released in the United States just days before his death, John Paul II continued to define the work of Christ as that which is added to human effort. Like the church he served, John Paul II rejected justification by faith. Beyond this, he rejected the biblical doctrine of hell, embraced inclusivism, and promoted an extreme form of Marian devotion, referring to Mary as “Co-Redemptrix,” “Mediatrix,” and “Mother of all Graces.”

While I’m not a Baptist, I probably would be classified as an Evangelical – if you’re comfortable using that term. Really what I am is an individual who is striving to glorify God with my whole life – not fragmenting it into sections (work, home, church, etc.). Since the Pope has died I’ve had to take a serious look myself at what it means to me – his office, his religion, he as a man and the fruit of his life and ministry.

While I agree with much of the article about the office of the Pope and the doctrine of the Roman Catholic Church, I still find myself continuing to seek out the Truth. Scripture is very clear that we are to “test everything according to the Truth” (1 John 4), so therefore I continue to test everything that is put in front of me according to that Truth.

The one thing I was glad to see in the article is the recognition of the good things this Pope has done – the sanctity and dignity of life issues he took on. While I may not agree with the man’s doctrine, I can certainly agree that he did what he believed was right in the sight of God and

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Biblical Answers to Catholic Questions

Panera Bread and Starbucks: The new church?

April 1st, 2005

There is an interesting movement going on in Mega Churches today. Many of them are now adding the cafeterias and Starbucks to their facilities. There is a lot who see this as something wrong or heretical and then there are others who love the idea of it. Whether it’s right or wrong to have corporate business under the roofs of our churches is not as important as why they are there. Let me explain.

I work a lot in coffee houses around Chicago land – it used to be downstate, but I’ve recently moved up north. And since I’ve begun hanging out these coffee shops I’ve begun to notice “regulars.” The regulars are the people who come in every week, they order the same thing, meet with the same people and talk about the same stuff – I’m one of these people. But when I take my headphones and listen to the world around me I’m hearing a different kind of conversation. What I’m hearing is what we in the Christian circles call “discipleship meetings” or “accountability meetings.” A meeting where believers in Christ get together to practice the wisdom of Proverbs 27:17: “As one iron sharpens iron, so let one man [or woman] sharpens another.”

This phenomenon is really intriguing to me because for a while I thought it was only me and my buddies doing this. But the more I watch people and the more I see those regulars I’m realizing that places like Panera Bread, Starbucks and Caribou Coffee are resembling the church more and more – the Church being the body of believers and not the building itself. And as a follower of Christ, that really excites me because it is our job to sharpen one another and I love the process of it all. It also excites me because I’m starting to see a generation of people who are saying that church is not about a building, or programs or a denomination, but it’s about a relationship with Jesus Christ as the only means for salvation.

So that bring us to the question of why should the church have these “evil” [stereotyping there] corporate businesses under their roof. Frankly there is nothing wrong with having industry inside the church – God created industry and work before the fall of man, so it’s a good thing; but that is a whole other topic. The reason why is that Christians today are begging for community and if the churches they belong to are not providing an adequate meeting locations which are able to meet their needs, then the church will just have to move to the nearest Panera Bread! That’s not a knock on churches; it’s just the reality of the culture today. We may be Christians, but we still want a good atmosphere, great coffee, a scone maybe and Norah Jones or Maroon 5 playing in the background.

Why Joggers Labor and Olympians Fly

March 1st, 2005

The marathon at the Olympics in Athens this month is fearsome, so grueling that even an elite athlete is liable to feel at least a moment of trepidation. The 26-mile, 385-yard course includes, among other body-bashing stretches, a 13-mile hill so steep it has been described as the equivalent of running up a five-story building every mile.

Your everyday, normal sort of runner, like me, will be breathless just watching. But many of the Olympic runners will make it look easy.

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